I m surrounded by great friends, its always a blast to be around them, we crack jokes and have fun together, its like there is great gelling between us. We are best buddies forever.
It's always cracking to have good company and smashing fun. However this friendship that you die for becomes fallible when all of you go your separate ways. By ways I mean careers, jobs, endeavors.
Normally this happens after school and colleges where you part from your best friends.
Time passes by and the steel strong friendship starts to catch rust. One starts to get busy in their lives. Some friends maintain contact. But at times close ones whom you desire most goes far away from you.
You being a considerate friend tries to revive contact by calling him. However after three four consecutive calls you realize that only you are making efforts to be in touch with him. He is never calling you back or he is never free and is not giving you proper time.
Normally this happens after school and colleges where you part from your best friends.
Time passes by and the steel strong friendship starts to catch rust. One starts to get busy in their lives. Some friends maintain contact. But at times close ones whom you desire most goes far away from you.
You being a considerate friend tries to revive contact by calling him. However after three four consecutive calls you realize that only you are making efforts to be in touch with him. He is never calling you back or he is never free and is not giving you proper time.
Finally you think, you have lost your best buddy. And try to figure out where things went wrong. Why he has become so ignorant ? one who used to call for even his small problems, what happened to that guy? He was Caring, reliable, considerate, fun loving friend. So what changed him ?
Friends this is a phase of life that you and me both has faced in our lives and will be seeing it again in future.
Sometimes the friendship bond become so strong that we stop thinking practically and wish things to go as per our desires.
Yes you are right being in contact is not a big thing to expect but then you should understand the situation in which your friend is, his busy schedules and various problem he is facing in his life.
There are also cases when a friend wants to talk back but don't as long time has passed since the talk and now he doesn't know what to say and what to ask.
You should also understand the nature of your friend. He might be hilarious and a great company to be with, a good friend but he does not have the habit of calling or holding on to friends. He is the guy who lives in present moves over his past.
Yes you are right being in contact is not a big thing to expect but then you should understand the situation in which your friend is, his busy schedules and various problem he is facing in his life.
There are also cases when a friend wants to talk back but don't as long time has passed since the talk and now he doesn't know what to say and what to ask.
You should also understand the nature of your friend. He might be hilarious and a great company to be with, a good friend but he does not have the habit of calling or holding on to friends. He is the guy who lives in present moves over his past.
What I mean to say by all this is I personally feel that you shouldn't repent about lost friends. You should try to revive yr frdship no doubt however you can't force friendship on someone. You should come to consciousness that It's part of life people come and go you can't hold back everyone.
You will find Best friends at each station of your journey but TRUE friend will be the one who stays till the end of the your journey without your asking.
I hope I could be that true friend for someone.
I hope I could be that true friend for someone.
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